We are again generalizing here, which is the source of any antagonism. "A handful of people killed some transgender people? That must be a cultural thing"; "Oh, some men killed some transgender people? That must be some kind of man thing." Why isn't it ever some kind of psychopath thing? Why can't we work together instead of looking for some group to blame?
Judge us as individuals, not as a group. That's all that I'm asking for. Isn't that what everyone wants?