
Originally Posted by
Konnery
Well when you phrase something bitchily(is that even a word?) it's probably going to come across that way. Also, doesn't "People only see and hear what they want" directly apply to you as well? So this topic could generally just boil down to people pontificating ad nauseam for absolutely no reason other than to hear/see themselves talk and hell, any kind of discussion would be exactly the same.
Or not.
I really can't see where you're going with the "background" and experiences thing. I don't start talking to people immediately about my sexual history. Maybe somewhere down the line but, off the cuff, you don't start rattling off a ticker of people you've banged, why you've banged them, and whether or not it was a satisfying experience. I've probably done some things that would make the devil blush but you don't see me throwing those out there at the onset of a relationship because "well you can't have meaningful dialogue without it" because yes, yes you can.
If I go and talk to the producer of this album about all the music we like, the production, and the mixing and all of this...my sexuality and personal history have absolutely no bearing on that, and honestly why would it? Maybe I just don't get the whole "Everyone needs to know my business" line of thought.