Got into a conversation with a friend about things we do completely innocent in motive but then in hindsight feel like douche bags for doing. Kinda interested to see if this is a more shared experience, since this is coming from a guy who usually could care less and is pretty blunt.
An example today:
On break from school for now and my parents seem compelled every now and then to buy me clothes. Usually ones I'd not really wear outside of the house just because they "aren't me". My dad comes in with a shirt that's this really weird green color with strange stitching and I just offhand said what I thought about it without thinking much, like always, and he had this injured puppy look in his eyes. Knowing him if it did bother him he was fine 10 minutes later but I totally felt like a little shit for it.