I just acquired my first girlfriend. Yes, I am 25 years old, I am only now in my first actual relationship. A winrar is me. It's a semi-long distance relationship, so we don't get to see each other much. I need advice from you seasoned sluts, since I'm a socially-inept relationship-noob.
We originally met online and we met in-person this past Friday/Saturday. Friday and most of Saturday were awesome for both of us (especially Friday night, take that as you will *coughBOOBIESARENICEcough*), but towards the final hours of the visit, she started becoming a little distant. Now that she's back in the next state over and we're back to communicating online, she doesn't talk anywhere nearly as much as she did before the weekend, despite my conversational efforts.
So, I ask you, how often should I talk to her? I feel like I'm drifting into "overeager, clingy boyfriend" territory. Should I back off? What should I be saying to her? I mean, I don't want to become the guy who's constantly asking "Is anything wrong? Did I do something?" I have a hard time interpreting where things stand. My happiness is in your hands, Dtoid.