Good Sex

[Wry Guy]

You know, I have been asked by a girl who gave me her number completely randomly to watch movies and it ended up being just movies. That, and I'm referring to her not just asking him when he's available outright as the lukewarm part. Saying he doesn't know when he's free is usually a solid "not happening today," so just ask him what time's good for a night together. Her thought process currently involves "I write this, thus he should write this back" and then she waits and tortures herself.

But as you're saying, just do whatever. This is just conversation. I don't want to put pressure down on anyone.

[GlowBear]

For the most part everyone seems helpful, but then some people are telling her not to text him and show she's worried about her self esteem, then others are saying, tell him she wants to fuck him. That doesn't seen too keen or potentially scary at all nooo. There's no definitive right or wrong answer. Just do whatever you feels right.

You've been in relationships Becs, you know dem feels better than people who haven't.


Simple rule for men & women, to appeal to anyone worth their time, in terms of friendship or relationships.



Pretty easy.

[Bec]

ok im going to write again as its quarter to 6 and i dont wan to be sitting around if nothing will happen ,il go out with mah friens.

going to say

any idea if you will be free tonight? we can always reschedule for some time next week when you have a free evening :-)


not too pushy? not to lukewarm? not to creepy/clingy/anything?

[Sir Legendhead]

You know, I have been asked by a girl who gave me her number completely randomly to watch movies and it ended up being just movies. That, and I'm referring to her not just asking him when he's available outright as the lukewarm part. Saying he doesn't know when he's free is usually a solid "not happening today," so just ask him what time's good for a night together. Her thought process currently involves "I write this, thus he should write this back" and then she waits and tortures herself.

But as you're saying, just do whatever. This is just conversation. I don't want to put pressure down on anyone.

Ok. I recognize your name. Evidently you're one of the Dtoid Elite, and we're all supposed to automatically agree with whatever you say.

Gotta be honest though. What you just said, doesn't make any fucking sense at all.

Here's a video.



Let the record show that Eldridge was piss drunk at the time of this posting, and furthermore!

He did it for Uncle Jimi.

<3

[GlowBear]

ok im going to write again as its quarter to 6 and i dont wan to be sitting around if nothing will happen ,il go out with mah friens.

going to say

any idea if you will be free tonight? we can always reschedule for some time next week when you have a free evening :-)


not too pushy? not to lukewarm? not to creepy/clingy/anything?

That's cool Becs. Put "cos I'd like to see you again" and a wee 'x' on the end

Have fun tonight with your mates!

[GlowBear]

Aurain you're doing that thing where you've no idea what you're talking about again and I've no interest. I never said I was a lesbian for one. How I define my sexuality is up to me and hardly the issue here, yet you bring it up like you bring other irrelevant subjects up in other threads and then have no leg to stand on when actual facts are presented to counter your bullshit ones.

Nor have you a clue, as per usual, about me or who I do or say what to/with in my past or even present really.

No man wants to be with...oh so you're all a hive mind now?

Responses? So a man and woman can't hurt the same when their feelings aren't reciprocated? Nonsense.

As for backing up statements and making assumptions - how many relationships have you been in, if any? How did your last encounter with a woman go that you can make any contribution that is actually beneficial?

In the Depression Thread you pulled this nonsense and it did nothing for you, and it was once again dealing with issues that Bec had. Now you're doing it again? What is your problem?

I understand plenty, you clearly do not and like to think otherwise.

[GlowBear]

Well done, you're such a man of the world.

[Sir Legendhead]

haha

I'd laugh too, if a glorious piece of woman such as her had seen fit to own my precious little ass.

[Bec]

for the record im not talking about this for cheap tricks or ego stroking or anything. i like the advice and support and encouragement from the forum community, especially now when im living on other other side of the world, feeling completely cut off and detached from everyone at home

[GlowBear]

It's because I think you give fairly poor advice to her and you get really defensive when people disagree with you over it. Maybe you think the same of me, that's cool if so. I'm within my rights to disagree with you, and despite your protestations, I know things about you in the same way you know things about me. Through times we've chatted amiably in the past, so yeah. Saying I don't know doesn't erase several months of memory of casual banter and chat.

Backing up my statements is sort of hard when the back up is "being male", and being a thought process. You'll note I don't claim to think what a woman would think in situation x or y.

Don't even try that back up nonsense. You bring up personal stuff about me, when you haven't a clue and come across as socially inept as the people you make such ridiculous factless statements about.
I think nothing of you, as in indifference, not meaness.
You were told in public, in PM's and on other chat functions that I have no interest in you or your little games and you have been proven several times as knowing nothing about me or situations involving me and others you know. Move on to someone else or better yet stop playing this superior clique game.


@Bec

That's what this sort of thing is about, being supportive, not knocking people. You gain more from helping people and that thriving. People care Bec, even though I've never met you,you're a sweet lass. It'll work out for you.

[Ali D]

The fact about starting any kind of relationship with anybody is that no matter how much you like that person and they like you, you can't get in their head. People have their own securities and they're always projecting those onto the world around them. That's not a man thing, or a woman thing; it's a human thing.

Can you imagine how easy all this shit would be if we all knew what everyone else wanted from a relationship before getting into it?

[Mr. Gobbldigook]

I wish girls didnt have that societal pressure normally to have to be picked up. I'm terrible at reading people so the fact that I have to assume a girl may be interested doesnt work for me. Why is it that I have to make the first move as a guy.

[Panzadolphin56]

ok im going to write again as its quarter to 6 and i dont wan to be sitting around if nothing will happen ,il go out with mah friens.

going to say

any idea if you will be free tonight? we can always reschedule for some time next week when you have a free evening :-)


not too pushy? not to lukewarm? not to creepy/clingy/anything?

Yeah, what Glowbo said. Sounds good Bec!

I'd laugh too, if a glorious piece of woman such as her had seen fit to own my precious little ass.

Ha ha, oh god

for the record im not talking about this for cheap tricks or ego stroking or anything. i like the advice and support and encouragement from the forum community, especially now when im living on other other side of the world, feeling completely cut off and detached from everyone at home

Well, you're now a lot closer than you were to a lot of the people trying to help you in this thread, so if it helps you feel any better you're very close to a lot of internet friends!

[GlowBear]

I wish girls didnt have that societal pressure normally to have to be picked up. I'm terrible at reading people so the fact that I have to assume a girl may be interested doesnt work for me. Why is it that I have to make the first move as a guy.

In the past year I've seen more girls go up to random guys and initiate. I suppose it depends in the era, the location and the people, but I get what you're saying.


Personally I'm too shy and lack enough confidence to walk up and start anything with either gender, unless there's been a lot of wine pumped in me, but even then...
If I get chatting to someone though and there's some fun/banter going on these days I'm a little more confident in that I would try and steer things to asking about going on a date. But no one really has crossed my path.

I would like if someone else did the work though next time, I've done plenty, I NEED TO BE TREATED LIKE A MANLY PRINCESS TOO Y'KNOW!


Hey Gobbldigook, how about I take yo fiiiiinnnnneeee ass out for steak tonight hmm? Only um can we split the bill?

Yeaaaaaaaaah

[Panzadolphin56]

WOOOOOOOO!! GANGBANG AT GOBBLDIGOOK'S HOUSE! EVERYBODY PILE IN!


...no pun intended.

[GlowBear]

Nice tips Gatsby, but I never know how that whole thing works. I just know the "getting to talk to someone" is the hard part.

We all need a to enhance the size of our ballsacks!

[usedtabe]

One night stands are awesome, though they usually turned into 2-3 night stands in my experience. I also second what Wry and Aurain have said. We may all share the same situations emotionally, but if you lay out what you're wanting the guess work is gone and he'll let you know unless he's a giant vagina . If so you don't want any of that anyway.

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One night stands are awesome, though they usually turned into 2-3 night stands in my experience. I also second what Wry and Aurain have said. We may all share the same situations emotionally, but if you lay out what you're wanting the guess work is gone and he'll let you know unless he's a giant vagina . If so you don't want any of that anyway.

[Sir Legendhead]

I also second what Wry and Aurain have said.

Beta as hell.

[Nihil]

After that, it's not difficult to tell if someone's enjoying your company or not. Even the most attractive dudes get rejected way more than they get some, you just need to have the balls to put yourself out there and keep trying. Eventually, something will happen.

Hopefully, something positive. There's always the possibility things can go downhill, fast. It's just good to be aware of that and roll with the curve-balls. Saves you a lot of trouble when it happens.

[Wry Guy]

ok im going to write again as its quarter to 6 and i dont wan to be sitting around if nothing will happen ,il go out with mah friens.

going to say

any idea if you will be free tonight? we can always reschedule for some time next week when you have a free evening :-)


not too pushy? not to lukewarm? not to creepy/clingy/anything?

I'd say that's good. You're settings things up for success quicker just asking the guy when he's free. That's all I was sayin'. Might be healthy to just go ahead and make plans with your friends, though. It's totally reasonable to make other plans when a person can't give you a definite answer on if they're free or not. Feels good to act like your time's valuable. MAKES YOU FEEL IMPORTANT.

Ok. I recognize your name. Evidently you're one of the Dtoid Elite, and we're all supposed to automatically agree with whatever you say.

Gotta be honest though. What you just said, doesn't make any fucking sense at all.

Here's a video.



Let the record show that Eldridge was piss drunk at the time of this posting, and furthermore!

He did it for Uncle Jimi.

<3

I ain't no elite, man. I just been around for a few years. You don't deserve no elite status when you barely post anymore.